DG has a pretty good article on sexuality and salvation that we should all heed. To my brothers, I have this plea: please stop with the sexual moralism. True Christianity finds its all in the gospel - God's grace to take us in when we are wretched. We all come to God laden with sexual sin. The purest among us is an adulterer, for without the Holy Spirit our hearts burn with lust. This is who we are. The joy is that there is salvation! The joy is that Christ takes our filthy rags and clothes us in his own righteousness. The joy is that God's own Spirit empowers us to enjoy God's great gifts - even sexuality - in their proper and most delightful context.
But some have ignored this, and instead spend their energy "fighting" homosexuality in the public square. Do you realize, friend, that no amount of moralizing nor legislation will take away the depravity of the human heart? There is the third use of the law, but that conversation makes no sense without the first two uses of the law! Which is to say that we are sinners all and need the love, grace, and compassion of a savior who gave up everything - even His own life - to rescue a people damned to torment for our own wretchedness.
The problem, brother, is that a few of us are so loudly proclaiming that homosexuality is a sin that we may be guilty of actually preaching a false gospel. You see, some of us have got a beautiful, strong doctrinal position. On paper. But much of the world never sees that. They hear your moralizing. They read your blog. They visit your church website. And the "gospel" they hear is that until they clean up their life, they cannot be acceptable to God. Please hear me; this is a very deep evil. This is not the gospel of Christ! Are you so arrogant that you believe you are God's own instrument to stem the tide of social depravity? That is God's business, and he has ordained a means by which this may happen - the conversion of the soul.
Brothers, we must be faithful, and part of being faithful is being clear that we are sinners in need of a savior - and sexual sin is just that. Even homosexuality, today's hot topic, is a sin against the one true God. So is the rampant lust, pornography use, and divorce that afflicts our "Christian" churches. Our actions do not make us less sinners. We do not need less grace. And the other part about being faithful is being faithful to proclaim our gospel of grace! The other part of being faithful is to actually obey Christ - to love God with all our strength, and to love our neighbor as ourselves.
So my plea to you is to please stop the moralism. I'm sure we mean well, but the gospel you take for granted is the precious water of life that alone can soften the cracked desert of the lost soul. Stop damming it up.